Weekly Meeting with your Higher Self: dissolve fear, doubt and pressure and move towards your desires

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right and still not getting where you want to go, this is for you. So many of us are out there trying to create our desired reality and achieve our goals from our current identity, versus actually connecting to our higher self. And not only that, so many of us are so attached to the outcome, the goal, the desire, while also being rooted in an identity of fear, of lack, of doubt, of pressure, of limitations. So even if you're taking action, the energy behind the action is more important than the action itself.

Today I want to teach you how to have weekly meetings with your higher self, and start reverse engineering your goals so that you have the exact blueprint you need, the identity you really need to tap into, so that you can fuel the actions you're taking with the energy of flow and ease.

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What is your higher self?

Your higher self is the version of you who is already at the top of the mountain. It's already seeing the path that has the least resistance for you to take. It's always guiding you. I like to think of it as this loving, wise, warm energy, almost like a parent energy, the part of you that has never stopped believing in what's possible for you.

And the most important part of all of this is that we can each tap into our higher self. We can each channel that energy. We all have it in us.

Why connecting to your higher self changes everything

What I love about connecting to the higher self is that it allows you to step out of your current identity, to separate fear from truth, and really see from a bird's eye view what is actually happening. Because we all know that when we're in our problems, we're in our problems, and we cannot see how to get out of them.

But within our own consciousness, within our own minds, we can actually separate ourselves from our current identity and see things through a completely different lens. That's what this practice does. It helps you reframe, shift into alignment, and connect with what the truth really is and what you really need to do so that you're going about your desires with flow, with ease, with true authenticity.

The energy behind the action is more important than the action itself

This is the piece that most goal setting advice completely misses. So many of us are so attached to the outcome, the goal, the desire, while also being rooted in an identity of fear, of lack, of doubt. And so even if you're taking action, if the energy behind it is coming from that place, it's going to feel like force, like pressure, like something you have to push through rather than something that flows naturally from who you're becoming.

Your higher self doesn't operate from fear. It operates from a deep sense of trust, of knowing, of security. When you learn to tap into that energy and take action from that place, everything shifts.

The Be Do Have method: the order of creation most people get backwards

Most people approach their goals starting with have. They focus on what they want, then figure out what they need to do to get it, and hope that somewhere along the way they'll start feeling like the person who has it. Have, Do, Be.

The actual order of creation works the other way around. Be, Do, Have.

You start with be, which is your feelings, your beliefs, your identity, the internal landscape you're operating from every single day. From that place of being, the doing flows naturally, the aligned actions that come from who you are rather than who you're trying to force yourself to become. And from that aligned doing, you create your desired reality, the having.

When you reverse engineer your goals this way, through the lens of your higher self, you stop chasing the outcome and start embodying the identity of the person who already has it. And that shift alone changes everything about how you move toward what you want.

Why weekly meetings with your higher self work

Connecting to your higher self isn't a one time exercise. It's a practice, and doing it on a consistent weekly basis is what creates real transformation. Each week you get to check in with where you are, audit the beliefs and feelings that are currently driving your actions, and consciously choose to realign with the version of you that already knows the way.

Over time you start to build a real relationship with your higher self. You start to trust it. You start to recognize its voice more quickly. And the gap between your current identity and the identity of your higher self begins to close.

Even doing this for just two weeks consistently can create a noticeable shift in how you feel, how you make decisions, and how aligned your actions start to feel with the life you're creating.

Your higher self is ready when you are

Your higher self is the most loving, wise, warm part of you. It's always there, always guiding you, always seeing the path of least resistance even when you can't. The life you want isn't waiting for you to do more. It's waiting for you to connect with the version of you that already knows the way.

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